see my post on the other new Desler thread you started.
Those irritated by grain of sand best avoid beach.
-Strumelia proverb c.1990
might be able to get it back, but I'm not sure. When I first started using a cell phone to check in here I accidentally deleted the same discussion twice and I think we just had to start it over again.
A good rule is to feel free to click anything that is not a garbage can.