The Positive Thread...
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My husband was mowing the lawn when the snow started falling, but he wanted to finish, so he just kept going. We got about an inch here in Lexington, KY.
Two weeks after my second vaccine (Pfizer) and I'm happy to report that after getting sick for about 5 days with the first shot, I only had a sore arm after the second one. I've planned a music retreat for July and plan to go to a writing workshop in August and the Black Mountain Music Festival in October. My book group may actually meet in person this month, outside, of course. It's so nice to have activities on the calendar after a year of nothing but doctor appointments!
Your stories of having to constantly go back to the car reminds me of the husband who never left on a trip in the car with his wife without having to go back to the house so she could make sure the iron was off. He solved that by always taking the iron and putting it in the car before they went anywhere. Saved making a lot of trips back to the house!
Apparently my brain's starting to turn to mush. I had some in-person business to take care of with someone and went to their house and sat in the living room with 4 other family members and not one of us were masked, nor did anyone think about wearing a mask (I had one in my purse) the hour or so that I was there. The 4 year old went from person to person and we all loved some on their cat. I think I had been home an hour or so before I realized what I had done. I hadn't visited in anyone's home for most of the past year and wouldn't have gone on a social visit. I almost never leave the house except to use drive-thrus at the bank, library, etc. My husband does all the grocery shopping and other shopping. Anyway, I was glad I had already gotten my first shot 3 weeks ago...I will get the second one Saturday.
Well, I haven't been sewing or baking, but I was able to visit my dad for a month in sunny Arizona over Christmas and help him through a health crisis which began near the end of Dec. I'm happy to report is is already feeling better and is happy to be able to walk with a walker, even though he's not (yet!) ready to get back on the golf course. New meds for diabetes and heart issues was mostly what he needed, but it was certainly a very scary time. He'll be 95 in February.
My new activity this fall and winter has been working on foreign languages on the website Duolingo. I started with several months of Spanish and then switched over to French. It's giving my brain a real workout.
I don't play my dulcimers every day, but when I do, I tend to play for several hours. I want to get back to working with Tabledit, too. I was just starting to get somewhere with it when I had to set it aside for awhile.
Good health to you all! I hope your music makes the days merrier.
I've been learning, first, Spanish, and now French on Duolingo for the past few months. It's fun--and quite a good workout for my old brain!
I like to make up tunes, too, Robin. That's also good exercise for the brain!
I feel fortunate to have met Ralph Lee Smith several times, most notably at Dulcimer U at Western Carolina University. What a kind, knowledgeable man! He was able to impart his knowledge about the mountain dulcimer in a way that communicated how pleased he was to answer your question or help you understand something better. He was never arrogant about what he knew--or how much, He just enjoyed sharing what he knew with others--and we were all richly blessed. Rest in peace, dear man.
Love hearing about everyone's Thanksgiving. Some people had big changes this year, but there was just the two of us, as usual and we had the traditional Thanksgiving menu we've enjoyed over the years. The one tradition we didn't follow was leaving at least one item uncooked/unopened/still in the cupboard, etc. or cooking it, but forgetting it was still in the oven until we started cleaning up...but things like baked sweet potatoes were always good as "leftovers" (unless they burned up in the oven). This year we had the best cranberries I ever made and my husband made the best-from-scratch pumpkin pie ever. We were especially thankful that all our relatives who have been sick with Covid-19 have recovered; we truly feel blessed.
Sounds great! We'll have our usual dinner for two: roast turkey breast, cornbread dressing, green beans, baked sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes and gravy, cranberries, rolls, and pumpkin pie. Only a small amount of each, but heavy on the starches, if anyone wants some of everything.
Ken, I hope all goes well and that you have no trouble with the catheterization. Mine was painless, and once I understood that I could watch it on the screen if I wanted to, I opened my eyes. It was very interesting, so I thought you might want the heads up so you could watch yours, too.
Dusty, Great news about your wife's job from home! There was a time when people begged to be allowed to do their office jobs (mostly computer work) from home and bosses said No way! Looks like a way has been found for many after all. It's just too bad that it took a deadly pandemic to have that happen.
I'm working on learning how to make a score (TAB and standard notation) using Tabledit. I'm using it with an original composition, trying to see how possible it is for me to get some of the music in my head into written form. Of course, with my issues with reading tab, I probably won't be able to play my own tab once it's complete!
In the early 60's, my dad brought home a recipe for sukiyaki from a friend who'd been working a while in Japan: fresh veggies sautéed with strips of steak put in at the last few minutes, served over rice. Some liked it a lot, some hated it. Of course, we had all eaten the vegetables and steak before. I think the objection was more about the liquid that the veggies simmered in. It contained both soy sauce and sherry--and I think it was the sherry which wasn't appreciated. I'm not sure if sherry was even in the friend's recipe--it might have been a special Japanese alcoholic drink or some other fermented liquid--but it was interpreted by mom as "sherry"--which she didn't even like!
People who didn't really like having this tasty dish served for supper referred to it as "sukiyukky". It's still a favorite dish of mine! But I'd never heard of the song by the same name before now!
That's a lovely photo, Irene, and I'm so glad you have it. Those windows you're standing in front of are gorgeous, too--where was that?
My mom was a lot like Tomasi. She loved to learn new information and was the Scrabble champ in our family. She read a lot and kept a notebook by her chair in the living room. She never learned to use a computer and there weren't any computers in the house. But whenever she came across some new information that interested her, she'd write the facts in her notebook. One section was for words new to her, with a note or a quote next to it. She kept on ongoing list of all the winners of the Kentucky Derby (which she actually got to see once), a list of types of boats according to size, an ongoing list of Presidents and who they'd run against, etc. She was a writer too: poetry, novellas, cookbooks (many!), memoirs, and studies of various books of the Bible--all of it handwritten in her neat small script. In later years she switched to printing everything because cursive writing was no longer taught in most schools. She didn't want her life's work lost to future generations. When someone wanted a copy of something she'd written, she get out fresh paper and a ball point pen and start writing...
Thanks for sharing your Tomasi with us! When you feel like sharing more, please do!
Irene, my condolences to you and your family on the death of your beloved. It sounds like your family is close; I hope you'll be able to find comfort in your shared memories. Thank you for your kind words about FOTMD. Know that when you think of us, the FOTMD "family" is also thinking of you and your family. Blessings, Jan
Our TP shortage was over by the end of March. In my area (Lexington, KY), people are pretty good about wearing masks in public. My husband (who does all the shopping) says MOST of the people in the grocery stores--and Wal-Mart and Lowes--are wearing masks, which is not required, but is strongly recommended.
I've seriously thought about that Ken! I'll have to practice my DAA skills, first, though! I loved reading your write up and seeing the videos that were posted. You all stayed in the same dorm as the one I stayed in back in 1991 when I participated (as a chaperone) in an international event for middle school and high school Girl Scouts. We met Loyal Jones and he entertained us with some funny stories. We had a dulcimer concert one night and the next day we each made a cardboard dulcimer and that's where my dulcimer journey began. My next dulcimer was a beautiful cherry Warren May. I sure miss having him in his shop now! I used to take my guests to his shop and play for the tourists while he worked his charm on the person I brought in. Actually, all he had to do, really, was show them what he had and play a little for them.
Dusty, the jam with your friends sounds like a lot of fun and that's not something we're allowed to do, yet. ALL of our parks, playgrounds, state and national parks, arboretums, natural historic sites, etc. are closed. When you see people out of their houses, they tend to be in their own yard (no other people allowed) or walking down the street/sidewalk. The one big "park" they haven't closed is the city's cemetery--that's always been a go-to spot for walking, bird-watching, and nature observing in general. It's a couple hundred years old, so there's lots of history to enjoy there, too. For the most part, the majority of people are following the restrictions as best they can. I'm really hoping that we'll be able to open up more businesses in the next 2-4 weeks, so more people in certain jobs can get back to work.
After not leaving the house in the past 6 weeks, except for medical issues that couldn't wait, my "errands list" had really grown! My husband, Craig, does the runs to the grocery store and hardware store; most everything else is handled online. Today, with the sun shining and temps in the mid-50's, it was so great to take an hour, drive through streets with flowers and trees in bloom, take take of business at the bank and pharmacy, use curbside pick-ups at a store and a restaurant.
I went inside at the pharmacy and was glad to see there were only 3 people inside, so it was easy to practice social distancing. I was there to select a birthday card for someone I love very much who is very sick at home, totally dependent on the goodness of the few people she knows who have any extra funds to help her and her child survive this. This is someone who has fallen through the cracks of our society, been wrapped in miles of red tape, and left to fend for herself. She and her daughter have both tested negative for COVID-19, but are ill with other conditions. The mother, herself, is on-hold for 3 operations that are greatly needed, but cannot be done at this time. She's battling cancer--and not for the first time. She's had severe back injuries from both car accidents and other bodily trauma. She's working on her third appeal to be declared disabled; so far, she's gotten nowhere with that. No food stamps. No unemployment payments. No government help with rent or bills. The list of rejections goes on and on. And she's one of the nicest persons I know.
So how do you find a birthday card for that? Nothing sexy or off-color--or just plain wacky or stupid. Nothing for a "wonderful daughter" or niece or sister. No point in wishing her a day full of friends, family, food, and fun. She's not going to have a "fun day"...if she keeps down some food and gets some sleep it will be a "good day". There are no wonderful bright days in her immediate future; survival is about the best she can hope for; she has a deep faith that is helping her with that.
I was finally able to find a very pretty card that did not refer to any relational connection. A card that expressed love, asked God to bless her, and said how pleased I was with the person she had grown up to be--words that I echoed in my own handwriting along with the hearts, X's and O's I placed near the bottom where I signed my name. There will be no visitors, nothing special to mark her birthday on Sunday--unless my card gets there by Saturday! I have not been well enough to travel the 100 miles to her home, although I finally tested negative for COVID-19 this week, as well!
So this is my reality. And hers. And although neither of us is actively ill with the coronavirus, it has impacted our lives. I am grateful to not be needed on the front lines with healthcare providers, funeral directors, ambulance drivers, truckers, grocery store employees and all the many others who are working so hard to keep us healthy and alive. But my heart aches for a mother celebrating her 42nd birthday so close to death, knowing she can't provide for herself or her child, and wondering what these next few years will bring, if she manages to survive these present crises.
Looking forward to your video, Dusty! Humor helps a lot!
I'm in week 9 of staying at home 99.99% of the time...and full time for the last month. I was tested for COVID19 last Wed., but don't have the results, yet. The governor said tonight that it might take 10 days or more if our test was sent to a private lab.