To chord or not to chord
Playing and jamming difficulties...HELP ME!
Simply put, you "determine(s) whether you choose to chord or not". This is a major factor in creating your own personal style of play. Just as choosing to sing or not sing along when you play, how you strum or pick or otherwise make the strings sing, and whether you sit, stand, hold the instrument flat or vertical or somewhere in between, define you as a dulcimer player.
The quintessential "rule" of dulcimer playing is: There Is No Right Way, Or Wrong Way To Play The Dulcimer -- only The Way that works for you. Never let anyone tell you that you must play in a given way.
I'm self taught too -- 40 years ago when there was only one book! I tell people that "one of these days I'll get it right." Actually I have -- gotten it right for me. I don't play chords at all. I play the full melody all the time in Noter & Drone style, with a variety of full and partial strums, primarily out-strums. I strum to the rhythm of the words, not a mechanical tick-tock. I almost never tune to DAd -- I change tunings readily, depending on the song -- DAA, Ddd, DAC, DAG and in the keys of C and E and G as well. I play sitting, with the instrument flat in my lap, or standing, with the dulcimer flat on a tall stand. I don't sing along as I play, rather I use the old technique of "play a verse then sing a verse".
updated by @ken-hulme: 06/24/20 05:18:55PM