Hi Gayle,
One finger up and down the melody string here(same as noter/drone, but without the stick),
Play almost entirely by ear and need the tune in my head before I can go anywhere, tra la la, or dum de dum is enough, just something to give me the notes and the rhythm. Songs are often easiest, the words give you something to hang the tune on.
I did teach myself enough SMN to sort out the mode and some sort of fret order, but I still need to hear it by ear, I'm not good at sorting out the rhythm and stuff yet. What a god awful system that SMN is BTW, whoever designed it needs shooting :)
Once I've got the tune in my head(or part of it anyway) it goes -
Take aim, Close your eyes, Dive in.
Taking aim
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So I start noodling around trying to fit what's in my head to the fretboard. Sometimes just a couple of notes, how it starts, or maybe a little phrase that works, something to anchor you to the fretboard. If you've got it right then the other notes kind of fall into place. Experience, and loads of trying out, will gradually start to tell you what's going to work and what's not,
First thing I try and find is the Home fret, where the tune is going to end. This tells me the mode and tuning and all that sort of stuff. Next I find where the tune starts and then if there are any intervals that aren't being used(gaps in the scale), this tells me what other Home frets might work.
Closing your eyes.
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Not literally, but you've got to get your head out of the way now. Actually closing your eyes can help here as it forces you to play by feel a bit more and stops your damn brain trying to get in on the act all the time, it already had it's turn when you were taking aim. You'll never play from your heart if your head keeps getting in the way.
Dive in.
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Just go for it.
This is where all the mystical stuff comes in and people start talking about opening up the higher chakras, getting out of the moving centre, allowing the chi to flow, and Jedi Masters like Randy tell you to trust in the Force.
Those that can do this are the musicians we valued the most, They don't play the music, the music plays them.
When I'm re-remembering a tune I know well it usually goes like this - first time through it goes reasonably well, second time through my brain want's to get involved and it all breaks up, third time through it starts to pull into shape.
Here's an actual example I've just started working on, this is something I heard on the radio and then dug up on youtube.
I was attracted to this in the first place as the sentiment is gentle, it's the song of a dreamer and sounds not quite fully in this world.
So, I listen to it a few times. Next I try to strip out everything but the melody, so follow the voice or the flute or the whistle, and end up with something like 'In the summer we'll go walking, la la la together, dum de dum de dum' in my head.
Next I noodle around looking for the home fret and find it at the 2nd. Very odd this, that's Locrian. closer examination shows it's gapped at the 2nd and 5th so will also fit in Phrygian(5th fret) and Aeolian(1st fret). Probably the missing dominant that gives it the slightly detatched feel.
So that's the brain almost satisfied, I can work the link from lower to higher register, but haven't quite got the bridge back from higher to lower yet(taking aim).
Next comes trying to get a better feeling for the rhythem and the flow of the tune(closing your eyes). then trying to get the whole thing to work(diving in).
john