The "I have small hands" idea
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Excellent points, Lisa. I see a lot of dulcimer players whose fingers are flat on the fingerboard. Arched fingers when typing, arched fingers when playing a stringed instrument. 5 fingered fretting is also something that most dulcimists don't do. I rarely use the thumb (unless I'm doing my Alan Freeman imitation) but I use the little finger a lot. I assume that's from being a guitarist long before I had a dulcimer.
Exercises: try to make a straight line with your thumb and little finger. Then try to make a 90 degree angle between all your fingers. To help with the arched fingers hold your hand out fingers extended then bend fingers at the middle knuckle holding them tightly then relaxing them.
DT, great points, as usual. True, I don't want to compel but rather to lead, to let folks know they can do more than they originally thought they could. In college I took jazz guitar lessons from a real Chicago jazzman. For the 1st lesson he handed me a sheet of paper with about 18 or 20 finger-twisting chords. He said, "2 beats each for next week." I worked and worked on them all week. When I returned for my 2nd lesson. I played them for him and he said it was good. Then I said something to the effect that boy they were really tough. I've never forgotten what he said next. "That's what I give an absolute beginner for their 1st lesson." He read the incredulity in my face, laughed and said, "you see, you know they're hard. A beginner doesn't know they're hard; a C chord is hard for them." When you start out, beginners, don't limit yourself with what you think you can play. You can do more than you think you can.