How do you Practice?
General mountain dulcimer or music discussions
Regardless of how you start playing, I think it's important to end by playing something that you know pretty well. To avoid the frustration that comes from trying to improve on any musical instrument, it is essential to maintain a feeling of satisfaction and confidence. Don't put the dulcimer down when you're frustrated; rather, put it down with a feeling of joy and competence. Make sure the last tune you play is something you know well and that gives you pleasure.
Unlike Ken, I do practice. There are techniques or songs that I find challenging that I want to learn. Of course, sometimes I just play and don't care about mistakes or improving. That's important, too. But when I want to focus and consciously improve my playing I always start with some scales and arpeggios to get my technique into shape. Then I might play one song that I've learned recently, but pretty soon I start with whatever I'm working on at the moment. It might be a song or it might be a technique. Often it's a tiny section of a song, even a measure that's giving me problems, and I'll obsess on that measure, playing it over and over and over. But as I said above, while that OCD behavior does indeed lead to improvement, it can also be frustrating, so I make sure I avoid or at least minimize that feeling of frustration by switching to a tune that I know well.
Occasionally, I review lists of songs to make sure I don't "lose" any. Right now I have two different lists. One is the tunes that I play with my local dulcimer group. I don't really mind if I make mistakes with that stuff, since we play it all together, but I want to at least remember how each tune goes. The second list is my list of tunes that I might play if someone asked me to play in front of people. That list changes, as I add and drop tunes as my tastes and abilities evolve, but I try to make sure I can play those tunes with as few mistakes as possible. I don't go over these lists of tunes every day, though. Depending on how busy life gets I might only get to them once every couple of weeks.

And your story is more evidence of what a kind, giving community dulcimer players are. Perhaps I'll see you at some dulcimer event in northern Cal one of these days.
If 000 is a D chord, then 111 is an E chord, 222 is an F (really F#) chord, 333 is a G chord, 444 is an A chord, 555 is a B chord, and 666 is a C chord. Then we start over with D again at 777. Until you learn more chord voicings, those are safe places for you.
I've been looking for that book for years and I don't know why it never occurred to me to post a note here. I'll send you a personal message right away. You're the best!
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