The One That Gets Away...
General mountain dulcimer or music discussions
I don't have an answer to this question, not because I nail every tune I attempt, but just the opposite. I try to play a lot of tunes on the dulcimer, and most don't work out. Some I have never gotten (at least not yet) and others were put on the shelf for a while only to be resurrected successfully later on.
There was one tune that I worked on really hard and could not get it at all. I got frustrated and just threw the tablature off my desk. But about a year later I was cleaning up and found that tab behind a bookcase. I sat down and tried to play it, and lo and behold I was able to do it! What had seemed impossible was now easily approachable. The lesson for me was to never give up, but also not to get frustrated. If something is not working, put it away for a while and come back to it later on.
I also want to comment on Bob's remarks at the beginning of this conversation. I first discovered the mountain dulcimer from Stephen Seifert's video of Whiskey Before Breakfast, which had long been one of my favorite fiddle tunes. I was entranced by Stephen's soft but quick fingering and the beautiful woody sound of the dulcimer. Of course, I wanted to play that song and worked on it for a while. Eventually I posted a version on Stephen's Dulcimer School, expecting to get some tips from him. And he did offer some helpful comments. But others commented at how good it was, a couple suggesting it was ready for public performance. That experience taught me not to measure my playing by the abilities of someone else, but only by my own desire to present my own musical ideas. Nowadays, I only play the song a little better than I did three years ago when I posted this video , but I don't let the fact that Stephen blows me away to stop me from offering my own version of the tune.
There are a lot of ways of being musically expressive, and even if you can't play as fast as someone else or with as many notes as someone else doesn't mean you can't find a way to say something with a song. One cool lick might say more than a whole verse of virtuoso improvisation. I have learned to play within my limits and to still find ways of inserting my own musical sensibilities into the tunes I play. As I've said elsewhere, if you start with a pretty tune and play it on a beautiful instrument, the real trick is to stay out of the way and not mess things up. If I tried to play as fast as Stephen Seifert, I would mess things up for sure.
updated by @dusty: 11/17/15 01:00:06PM

