The "I have small hands" idea
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There's a pervasive thought amongst string instrument beginning players that their hands are too small for a "normal/average" sized instrument. I used it as an argument many, many moons ago when buying guitars. My hands are still small but they were a lot smaller when I was 12 so what kind of guitar did I want? One with a very narrow neck. I found a used Gibson from the early 60's with an extremely narrow next which I though was ideal. But, was it? When looking for a good electric a few later, I returned to the Gibson section of the music store because of the smaller neck profile. Wonderful, huh? Maybe, maybe not!
Were I to have it to do over, I would have gone straight to the Gretsch section and bought on of those Chet Atkins models with the really wide, classical style neck. Why would I do that since I have really small hands? Because your fingers stretch with use. Your reach between your index and little finger gets to be huge with proper use and gentle stretching. When I studied classical guitar I saw the fallacy of my thoughts. In fact on a flamenco guitar forum in which I used to participate a fellow said he was 6'5" with large hands; all of his Spanish teachers were 5'5" or under with much smaller hands and all of them could stretch their fingers further than he could.
Fast forward to the dulcimer. I bought my first one and the vsl is about 30". Did I know that was "long?" Shoot, no. I knew it had 3 or 4 strings and you laid it on your lap to play it and that it seemed like it was fun to play. This was in the mid-80s so there was no one to ask; no one to say, "Boy! That's a big dulcimer. Bet it's hard to play." Nope, I just played it. My fingers stretched to make the reaches in some tab. If I were playing something by ear, I'd avoid those stretches if I could. LOL. The point (probably not well made) is unless you have a physical disability that keeps your fingers from moving "normally" you shouldn't be concerned with the vsl of a dulcimer you like in all other respects. If you play it the music will come out. Your fingers will adjust to the length with time and patience. That's a key thing with any instrument: patience. My classical guitar teacher taught gentle stretches for both the right and left hands which were to be done every day. Playing scales using all the fingers also "loosened" them up.
Bottom line point is, don't be afraid to challenge yourself. Get in there and play just a little beyond your comfort zone. Remember that comfort zone will change with time; don't be afraid to help it (push it) along.
updated by @rob-n-lackey: 02/09/25 08:12:12PM
